Let it go...

I read something lastnite night that said, If something doesn't want to be kept, let it go...

Hmmm, I've been thinking about it every since.
What do we do with our dogs when we take them out to the park? We let them roam and run freely. After they've exerted all of their energy they come back. Why do they come back? Because they feel loved and valued by their owner. If they didn't feel loved or valued, I'm sure they wouldn't return.

Just like with people. Some of us value good friendships so we keep them healthy. We talk when we're hurt, we talk when its all good. We talk when we need to yell and we talk in the calmest voice when just sharing.

What makes letting go so hard?
Is it the fear of facing the unknown, is it not trusting yourself to live with the decision you are making..

I'm reminded of this song by Heather Headley"
When you love someone you gotta let them go and if they come back it means so much more!

If it troubles you , Let it go
If it hurts you, Let it go
If it makes you feel unsafe, Let it go

But if it supports you..... You make the call!