The Wonder of a Woman....

Mother's Day has come and gone... Back to hustle and bustle of motherhood... I must admit, I marveled in how great Mother's Day was this year. It was all of the small things that mattered most this year. As I've grown, I realized it's not always about the gifts. They are just an added bonus to the Thank You's and appreciation received on that day. 

 It's so ironic how everything falls into place though. 

I was told by a sister friend that I have amazing super powers. I mean, to raise my kids and to help nurture other people's kids, there must be a few unknown powers I carry within. And I think I have figured them out. I carry: Love, Peace, Joy and Understanding!!! And the greatest of them all is I Love Jesus and he loves me!! 

His Love makes way for my Peace. Yes, I run around on empty some days but I'm not a ticking time bomb. I have my right mind even when I feel the world is not working in my favor... 

The wonder in a woman.. We're full of amazement, humor, love, energy, gifts and tons of other things that gives us strength to keep on moving.. 

Some days I wake up with the S on my crown and the S on my chest. You wonder how I do it?!! It's the God given ability given to the strongest women. You want strength? Ask him, it's Yours!! 

So when you think you can't do it, You want to give in? Remember, you carry a strength that only God gives to his strongest.. You are indeed, Wonder( of A) Woman!! 

This year, my family and friends finally acknowledged my strength and power and made me WonderWoman!! 

I'm forever grateful.... Motherhood definitely is not for the weak!! #iWin 

Signed, 

Simply Cheneka... Aka Wonder Mom 

An Equal Opportunity...

I recently experienced a 3 week journey, #21days that left me feeling:
Refreshed
Renewed
Refocused
and Rebuilt.
Have you ever experienced something that, although it was difficult some days, it left you appreciative at the end?
I'm learning and still growing. At 33, I know more than I did at 30 but not enough to say I know it all. I've learned enough to know that, my source of strength come from being tapped into a God that knows me better than I know me and who only wants me to succeed. I thought that, once I got to Atlanta, my journey would be complete and I would walk directly into GREATNESS. Don't misunderstand me, I have walked into better( got connected to an AWESOME church The dReam Center Church of Atlanta and AWESOME Pastors William and Danielle Murphy), which has turned into great but it's still not my GREATEST just yet. A three year process, that has taught me, that the 1st 3 quarters, you loose some and you win some but oh the 4th quarter( September 2 Remember), you take it all or go home.. And I've been taking it all. When situations are not working in your favor, YOU have the right to change the atmosphere and demand a shift on your behalf...

But, in the process, learn how to just SHUT UP... YES, we all have the right to share but when our sharing turns into other's way of belittling and laughing then it's no longer an equal opportunity for equal support..... We can't take everyone on the journey, we have to leave some people behind so when the empire is built, we can come back and get them.

I've grown to appreciate a few women placed in my circle. They each bring life to me but in a different way. I have 2 that I must talk to daily and I have others who I call on just when I need them the most!!!
While many have been placed to see what they can get from me, there are a few who really want to grow and mature with me.
If you surround yourself with sisters who think like you, there will be NO big I's and small you's...

There's equality for all. So, if you're crazy, find you some crazy"Certifiable" friends, if you're business minded search out business owners and if your road is leading you to go back to school, then register. We cannot always blame others for our failure and losses. You can only Blame you.
I have a 5 year plan that I will execute with or without someone pushing me. My #21 days has taught me that, God responds to the cry of the Worshipper and Grace and Favor are for me. There's Power in my voice and when I ask know that, God has enough equality to give to each of us... While man tries to validate, I look to GOD because the final YES and REWARD lies in HIM....

So, Baaaaay Bayyyyyyyy, know and understand I'm out here to Win It!!!

Signed,
2far2quit