Cheneka T. Is.......

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I'm Cheneka, simply put!! I'm a Mother, Author, Business Owner and Co-Founder of Women Who Network, LLC. I recently became a published Author: Strategically Being Mom. Book number 2 is currently in the works. A series on things I've learned while being a Single Mom. I was born to help heal others through my words and actions. My greatest Joys are my children and to help others. You can find me on Instagram; womenbldgnetwrk( business) neka_th( personal).

Thursday, April 23, 2015

Sound offffffff....

You talk to much and you never shut up, shut up.. A big blabbermouth that is what you are, if you were a talk host you would be a Star...Run DMC
I promise, sometimes it's so hard just to Shut Up! I don't know if it's the trait of being the oldest( and needing to solve everything), the fact that I'm an Aquarius and we're savers of the Universe or the fact that I'm just a Woman. Whatever the case is, I have it bad!! 

But as of late, I'm learning that sometimes I just need to shut up. Every situation does not deserve the opinion of Cheneka( although in the back of my throat and under my breath, I promise I'm saying something, lol).. 

We all deal with life and situations differently. When I can't solve something, I get in my feelings and everything and everyone is against me. I know it's probably wrong but it works for me ( don't judge me). 

I was spending quality time with a guy friend and we were casually talking. As always I have an opinion but for once I said( outloud) " You know I have something to say but I'll keep my opinion to myself"... He responded, "Thank You".. Did he lowkey agree that I needed to shut up? Lol I'll never know and because he's a gentleman he'll probably never tell either.. Shrugs 

Ladies, how do you shut yourself up or do you wait to be told shut up?

Guys, how do you deal with your overly opinionated Boo??? Let's sound off... 

Signed, 
When you walk away, I'll be talking Again 






5 comments:

  1. Lololol... I've been asked "why are you so quiet?" a lot lately...

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  2. Just last night I kept saying "ok I feel like I'm talking too much" lol, sometimes we just can't help it. I'm slowly but surely learning the balance. I don't want to be a mute (oh I WILL be heard) but at the same time I don't want to be overbearing. Like the true Aquarius that I am (just like you) I find myself having an answer for everything and wanting to save everybody. It's a beautiful flaw that I'm learning to balance.

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  3. Sometimes, things are best left unsaid. Gotta learn to pick your battles....

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