Cheneka T. Is.......

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Atlanta, Georgia, United States
I'm Cheneka, simply put!! I'm a Mother, Author, Business Owner and Co-Founder of Women Who Network, LLC. I recently became a published Author: Strategically Being Mom. Book number 2 is currently in the works. A series on things I've learned while being a Single Mom. I was born to help heal others through my words and actions. My greatest Joys are my children and to help others. You can find me on Instagram; womenbldgnetwrk( business) neka_th( personal).

Sunday, October 25, 2015

Angels DO Exist...

.... And sometimes God allows us to be Angels~ CTH 

Riding thru the Blueridge Mountains, enjoying the fall foliage and the scenery. We decided to pull over and get a few still shots with my Canon. As we park, there's an older woman standing next to her car with the hood up. Because my friend is super concerned and caring, he asked the woman was she ok and did she have roadside assistance. 

I stood back and watched the interaction unfold. As we began to walk away, another car soon pulled behind us and the first thing he asked was, " Do u think they have jumper cables"? With concern for their safety, he says, " I don't mean to startle you but do you have jumper cables"? She responded, " YES, we have cables".. 

He took the cables and jumped Rose's car. Rose( her name) instantly gave us hugs and we shared in small talk. She told me she was just journaling, I told her I'm a blogger. I then said, " we were just talking about Angels and she said I was just reading about Angels on Facebook". 
I promise God always puts us in the right places at the right time. 

As most of you know, I'm getting my life together. Cleansing my mind of a lot of clutter and baggage. I'm learning that God allows everything to happen for a reason. This was not a coincidental weekend. I struggled with thoughts in my head because of unresolved issues with this person. But in that moment God reminded me that if nothing else he's taught me the importance of Patience. With patience comes understanding and forgiveness.. 

My loves, I challenge you to be understanding in all things. If you look with your heart and not always your eyes( catch that), God makes ALL things right in his timing. 

Prayer and Patience are my friends.. For that I'm thankful.. 


Signed, 
I have Angels Around Me... 

Thursday, October 22, 2015

Here Waiting....


As I continue on my journey of cleansing myself, I've found myself truly getting in touch with my inner feelings and truths. Prayer has definitely become my best friend. I've always prayed but now I. PRAY! I pray about everything.. 

As I pray and shed weights I no longer want to carry, I find myself fighting for what I believe I truly deserve in this life. Yeah, we all deserve to be happy but are we truly happy within ourselves? 

Everyday I fight for MY happiness. I make my own reasons to smile, I make myself go harder for myself and my children. In doing so, I truly believe I'm opening the door for my "Forever Prince", to do the same. 

I refuse to lie but I'm ready to finally Love someone just as much as they love me. The hardest part of this journey has been releasing old feelings. It's crazy how we carry other people well after they are gone. I used to always say, " no matter what I'm still going to love you". Whelp, those days are long gone and OVER. My truth is, I can't carry a love for anyone who does not carry a love for me. I cannot fight for anyone who is not fighting for me. Believe it or not, there's 2 sides on every street! Ahhhhh, that means this is a two way street. Not just your way or my way but a two way.. Give a lot, take less..( let that sit for a bit)

Life & Love is way more than words but it's followed by actions. The actions I produce show others where to meet me. If you can't meet me where I am, then truth be told, I'm not the one for you.. 

So here's to my truths setting me free.. Here's to me releasing unwanted baggage. Here's to Loving Me like there is no tomorrow. Here's to finding balance with life, motherhood & love.. 

I'm finally seeing the benefits of my self cleanse. I'm evolving.. Thank you Cheneka for loving Cheneka enough to get it right. 

My loves, I challenge you to get it right. First get it right with yourself and everything else will follow suit. Tomorrow has the potential to be greater if we utilize every minute given to us today~ CTH™

Signed, 
I'm Ready for It~ 

Tuesday, October 20, 2015

Adult vs Adult...

Is it ok for me to be absolutely, positively over being an adult? Well I am. I truly understand that we put ourselves into a lot of situations but sometimes being an adult is just overRated.. 

I remember growing up, one of the many lessons I learned over and over again was, " if you have nothing nice to say DO NOT say anything at all".. I've been guilty of saying a lot of things but maturity is teaching me to speak from a place of MY truths. 

Adults can be so tough on each other and what it boils down to is simply "misunderstandings", misconstrued words and the battle of not wanting to be wrong.. 

So tonight at this moment, I denounce my adult thrown.. I don't want it.. I return it to the Gawds of growing up.. Take it back!! Lol

But seriously, all jokes aside. We have to find better ways of getting along and expressing our feelings without beating the other up with name calling. 

I get it some of us may be tough but at the end of the day words hurt.. 

I challenge all of my adult friends ( because we're all grown), to respect the next person. Simple. As. That! 

Rest Peacefully, 

Signed, 
An Adult 

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