It's in the Water

Last weekend, my little people and I spent some much needed time at a few beaches in Florida. It was so refreshing and relaxing... 

So here goes. Anyone who knows my son #boychild, knows he has an extreme fear of the pool. It's so bad that I had to purchase a kiddie pool for our back yard because he's afraid of the pool in our complex. 

When we arrived at our hotel Friday, he made it clear that he knows his fear and he was not getting in the pool. We were able to get him to get in but it was a struggle. He had goggles, a ring and arm floaties but he still chose to stay on the steps. 

Saturday after spending time at our reunion, we went over to Destin Beach. I was a bit apprehensive because I knew he probably wouldn't go far. So much for me thinking!! When I tell you this little boy stayed in the water.. Lol

It was a struggle to get him out. He kept saying, "Mommy I love the beach". It made my entire heart smile. As parents, we try our best to protect our children but there comes a time where we have to just sit back and watch. I watched in absolute amazement at my son enjoying the water. 

My loves, I challenge you to release your fears. You have the power within to overcome anything. You'll never know until you try. Try a new meal, skydive, kiss someone new. Just get out and do it. We cannot let our fears hold us hostage. It's not worth it. 

Now that I know my son likes the beach vs the pool, I guess we'll have to have more trips to the beach. Anyone willing to put us up for the weekend? Lol

I Kid.. Make your Friday GREAT~ 

Signed, 

Fearless Days ahead 

Let it go...

I read something lastnite night that said, If something doesn't want to be kept, let it go...

Hmmm, I've been thinking about it every since.
What do we do with our dogs when we take them out to the park? We let them roam and run freely. After they've exerted all of their energy they come back. Why do they come back? Because they feel loved and valued by their owner. If they didn't feel loved or valued, I'm sure they wouldn't return.

Just like with people. Some of us value good friendships so we keep them healthy. We talk when we're hurt, we talk when its all good. We talk when we need to yell and we talk in the calmest voice when just sharing.

What makes letting go so hard?
Is it the fear of facing the unknown, is it not trusting yourself to live with the decision you are making..

I'm reminded of this song by Heather Headley"
When you love someone you gotta let them go and if they come back it means so much more!

If it troubles you , Let it go
If it hurts you, Let it go
If it makes you feel unsafe, Let it go

But if it supports you..... You make the call!