Cheneka T. Is.......

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I'm Cheneka, simply put!! I'm a Mother, Author, Business Owner and Co-Founder of Women Who Network, LLC. I recently became a published Author: Strategically Being Mom. Book number 2 is currently in the works. A series on things I've learned while being a Single Mom. I was born to help heal others through my words and actions. My greatest Joys are my children and to help others. You can find me on Instagram; womenbldgnetwrk( business) neka_th( personal).

Wednesday, November 25, 2015

Heaven nor Hell


"It's the ones with so much to say that can't do anything for you"... ~CTH

There was a point in my life where I cared so much about what people thought of me that I wasn't living my Best Life.  I was so caught up in not being judged or talked about that I found myself walking on egg shells most of the time. And for why?! These same people I was so worried about couldn't offer me a pot to piss in, nor a place to lay my head if I ever needed it. 

Once I learned to start living my life, I quickly learned that the ones who I was trying to please are the same ones now judging me!! I just couldn't win😒

The harsh truth is that, even on your best days, someone is going to find fault with what you're doing. You decide to change areas of your life, you're now acting like you're to good. You decide to cut your hair, you're going through something. You decide to relocate, you're chasing after a man( or a woman). 

I promise, some people are just so darn miserable that no matter what, they'll never see the good in You or what You do. 

Our main goal should always be to live a life that honors God and a life that you're proud of. I promise, people will drive you crazy and talk about you for being crazy when they're the reason!! Tuh 

As the year comes to an end, my only goal is to end on a high note and happy that I've accomplished all I set out to do. Call me crazy if you want, I'm going to still be and do ME... ( but please understand, while I'm still being worked on by God, chill with the name calling because there's always that potential for backlash lol). Call me bougie if you must, just don't be mad that I chose to stop settling!! 

My Lovies, misconceptions are false views and opinions of us. As we live and grow in life, false truths will no longer bother us. At the end of the day, always find yourself in a place of pure happiness.  And that my friend will keep your A game strong and your life on track. 

I read a saying once, " if you're going to talk about me, at least say she always got her stuff together"... Let this be your motto too!! 

Happy Wednesday Y'all!! 

Signed, 
Simply Cheneka everyDAY


3 comments:

  1. My kindred sister, we cannot be going through the same challenges at the same doggone time!! I spoke on this yesterday with a friend and hate that there are so many of us genuine hearts dealing with the same .. One thing your post does is share insight that this behavior is sadly expected when we're climbing and trying to be our best self for God. Even when we aren't doing anything or saying much, we're going to get the "ummm wonder what she's up to" sneers .. Im sticking with God and asking Him to build me up stronger to deal with the unseen. We got this and they know it and sadly, it's too much for them to deal with. So my hope for us .. Keep soaring as we prepare for our flight to take off �� #BigGod

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  2. Love you Nellie!! We got next!! This time next year we're going to ask God, " How did I get here"!! Only up from here

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  3. Thanks be to God that they cannot stop your blessings or close a door that God has opened for you. That table is being prepared for them to sit and watch how God has already blessed you!!!

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