"It's the ones with so much to say that can't do anything for you"... ~CTH
There was a point in my life where I cared so much about what people thought of me that I wasn't living my Best Life. I was so caught up in not being judged or talked about that I found myself walking on egg shells most of the time. And for why?! These same people I was so worried about couldn't offer me a pot to piss in, nor a place to lay my head if I ever needed it.
Once I learned to start living my life, I quickly learned that the ones who I was trying to please are the same ones now judging me!! I just couldn't win😒
The harsh truth is that, even on your best days, someone is going to find fault with what you're doing. You decide to change areas of your life, you're now acting like you're to good. You decide to cut your hair, you're going through something. You decide to relocate, you're chasing after a man( or a woman).
I promise, some people are just so darn miserable that no matter what, they'll never see the good in You or what You do.
Our main goal should always be to live a life that honors God and a life that you're proud of. I promise, people will drive you crazy and talk about you for being crazy when they're the reason!! Tuh
As the year comes to an end, my only goal is to end on a high note and happy that I've accomplished all I set out to do. Call me crazy if you want, I'm going to still be and do ME... ( but please understand, while I'm still being worked on by God, chill with the name calling because there's always that potential for backlash lol). Call me bougie if you must, just don't be mad that I chose to stop settling!!
My Lovies, misconceptions are false views and opinions of us. As we live and grow in life, false truths will no longer bother us. At the end of the day, always find yourself in a place of pure happiness. And that my friend will keep your A game strong and your life on track.
I read a saying once, " if you're going to talk about me, at least say she always got her stuff together"... Let this be your motto too!!
Happy Wednesday Y'all!!
Signed,
Simply Cheneka everyDAY
