Cheneka T. Is.......

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I'm Cheneka, simply put!! I'm a Mother, Author, Business Owner and Co-Founder of Women Who Network, LLC. I recently became a published Author: Strategically Being Mom. Book number 2 is currently in the works. A series on things I've learned while being a Single Mom. I was born to help heal others through my words and actions. My greatest Joys are my children and to help others. You can find me on Instagram; womenbldgnetwrk( business) neka_th( personal).
Showing posts with label mommyhood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mommyhood. Show all posts

Friday, March 6, 2015

Let me Pop these tags..

Happy Friday my lovies!! 
The other day I was chatting it up with my sistergirl( like we already don't talk everyday, we're each other's Sanity pill) and she asked me what were my goals for this month? I'm like goals? I save an extra $150 a month, to continue eating better and feel good in my skin. That's enough right?

Apparently not. Lol 
She broke down her goals and it inspired me to rethink mine. 

I have this beautiful Jessica Simpson 2 piece( YES, I has a 2 piece) that I purchased a while back. Don't judge me. I have a bad habit of purchasing things and either 1) forget I have them or 2) never use it( I'm not a hoarder tho, whew). As I thought of my goals, I decided my goal for every month until June is to look better in it until I have the courage to wear it at a pool party or something. But I WILL wear it, THIS summer. 
I haven't always been comfy in my skin but as of late, I feel like I'm only as dope as I feel. Im working on it. 

This same SisterGirl and I got our free Yoga Mat and carry bag at DSW and my goal is to use it until I can't anymore! Let's make Goals and keep them yAll! 

Your goal may be totally different than mine but if we make them and hold each other accountable, anything is possible. 

This time June, these tags will be popped and like Tupac said, " All eyes( will be) On Me"... Don't believe me Just watch!! 

Make it a day of Goals!! 
Signed, 
Breaking the Internet!!! 

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Mic Check, is this thing On~~~~

So, Friday my daughter came home super excited about their penguin egg project. Weekend homework consisted of decorating a box, bag etc, to house your egg for the entire week!! WHAT??!!

My daughter barely cleans her bedroom without her arms getting tired or her getting tired( where does that happen, its your mess you clean it). So, I watched her with anticipation prepare this egg living space. She was beyond excited. Took one of MY shoe boxes to give to an EGG??!! Really?! Bump..

I love seeing the excitement in my daughter's eyes. She's very determined and she's growing into her own. I'm learning that each child is different and they require to be treated as such. I'm also learning that,I have to watch what I do and say in her presence. Prime example, I have a BAD habit of hanging up when people put me on hold. I was talking to my mother on Saturday and she asked me to hold on. I didn't. My daughter says to me," grandma put u on hold huh"? I said yes why. Because you hung up. She then proceeded to say, so it's okay for you to hang up on them mommy but you want them to hold on for you? I just looked. Then she said, but if they hang up on you is that's okay because they are only doing what you do? I had to kinda try and laugh it off but she checked me and she was right. so, I called my mother back and apologized. This was NOT the fist time she observed something I did and later questioned me on it.

I'm working really hard at raising well rounded children. So if it means I have to continously CHECK myself so she won't have to question a not so positive adult like action then I will. If it means, checking my attitude, smiling more, saying NO more and being stern about it, then I will.

Now, back to this egg thing.... The eggs come home today and I will not be a GrandeggMommy.. This is a school project and will be treated as such. Hmmm, she think cleaning her room is enough, wait til I have her bring that egg in the bathroom with her because she need to keep it in HER eye sight!!!!! Hahahahahahahahahhaaaaaa

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