Get Yo' Life...

  It's funny how we can take a funny phrase and make it into something with meaning.


 My Mother is a T.V Junkie. You want to know what's going on, ask her! And it's not a bad thing. My mom has earned her right do Nothing. She volunteers with the food bank at her local church and she gives of her time to the less fortunate.


 This weekend was a Get Yo' Life kind of weekend( yup, the TV junkie explained to me that it's a phrase used by Ta'Mar Braxton). What does it mean one might ask... Hmmmmmmm


I digress....
When people have to much to say about you and what you're doing, somewhere between mine and yours, they LOST theirs!! Don't try and help them get theirs either. Step away and mind yours( a hard lesson I've learned but by George I think I got it). When we feed into them minding our life, we give a slight indication that we're feeding into their mess.


These are just a few of the many indicators that someone needs to Get they Life...


Get Yo'Life when you have to much time on your hands to worry about others...
Get Yo'Life when you're miserable and make problems for everyone else..
Get Yo'Life when you're judgemental
Get Yo'Life when you're a trouble maker
Get Yo'Life when you're gossiping
Get yo'Life when you're backbiting
Get Yo'Life when you're doing too much
Get Yo'Life when you've lost your will to live Your OWN Life.


Getting your life it sounds funny but it's serious.  This weekend, my life was tested because I have a low tolerance for others who cause trouble. It's one thing to feel a certain way about me but to judge me and talk about me and make snide remarks when you don't know the Real ME~ I'm going to need for you to Get Yo' Life & leave mine alone..


 It's so easy to loose your life when you're so engulfed in someone else's. Never be quick to judge because if you're not perfect or Jesus Christ himself walking on water, you're liable to make mistakes and fall along the way or even drown..


Living a blemish free life is hard. We all make mistakes we all fail but your growth and maturity is tested when you can walk away and just leave it alone.


Today,( well Everyday) I realize the importance of being in charge of my own destiny. With the help of God and people in my corner who really love me, I'm able to keep up with me. I can't keep up with someone else because, for every minute I waste is a minute I can't get back. 


As hard as it may be for some, Get Yo' Life... No matter the cost, measure or extremes you must take to keep it, you DO it! I bet you'll feel better!!


 ~Cause, ohhhhhhhhhh Hunny, I got mine~