Cheneka T. Is.......

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Atlanta, Georgia, United States
I'm Cheneka, simply put!! I'm a Mother, Author, Business Owner and Co-Founder of Women Who Network, LLC. I recently became a published Author: Strategically Being Mom. Book number 2 is currently in the works. A series on things I've learned while being a Single Mom. I was born to help heal others through my words and actions. My greatest Joys are my children and to help others. You can find me on Instagram; womenbldgnetwrk( business) neka_th( personal).
Showing posts with label Summer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Summer. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 10, 2015

But it's Good For You...

My kids are gone for 3 weeks. I won't lie, within the 1st hour I wanted to drive back to my momm and get them. But I didn't. I'm a single parent and breaks come few and far in between. I made up in my mind to enjoy this time. Who knows when I'll be afforded the opportunity again.

Lastnight/ This morning... Sheesh where do I begin? I was hungry( since my kids aren't here I'm not pressed to go food shopping) I mean hella hungry. I thought to myself, it's the perfect time to get the girls together. We made a few detours and ended up at Fellini's Pizzeria on Peachtree. I know, kinda late to be eating a slice but oh well. We grabbed a table outside and the pettyNess began. 

I always say, being in Atlanta has afforded me the opportunity to meet great people but everyone is NOT a sisterfriend. These 3 though are the best. I'm glad we sat outside because the four walls could not contain the amount of hollering and laughter that went on. Petty pictures, petty names, petty posts. Yup, that's what we do( if you're not following me on Instagram I'm CheNeka T. Hobbs) 

I'm glad they all know my children and allowed me to talk about them for a brief second( I'm the only one with kids) but chile after I got it out my system, the conversation went straight south. When it's a bunch of women and 1 male( hey Marq) Sex is bound to come up. I must admit, it's good to have a guy's perspective when talking. You may hear some crazy stuff AND stuff you don't want to hear when you have a son but it's all good. 

Talking about sex is so risqué at times but it's a natural conversation. You're either getting it or you're not. And I know this comment may get back lash but if you're going to do wrong, you might as well enjoy it! And let's not forget about 
C-O-O-K-I-E-S..... A blog for another day, shrugs

Being around good people, food and a good beverage is ALWAYS good for the soul. I'm a bit sluggish this am because I haven't hung out that late ( I got in bed after 3AM, I think) in a while but it was well worth it.. 

So listen up, my kids will be gone for 3 weeks and I don't mind driving! Lol
I'm here for the fun and late nights. They make me happy. Call me, shoot a text, email me, leave a message. I'm here for it ALL and I want to live a little... Lol I mean it isssssss, " Summer, Summer, Summer Time"...( yessss Fresh Prince). 

Signed, 
A Momm on Summer Break 
 

Wednesday, April 8, 2015

We wear Short Skirts...

Well ladies( and gents too) the moment we've all been awaiting has arrived.The  season of legs. They're going to be everywhere!! I absolutely, positively LOVE a short skirt. I'm still a little on the fence with shorts but if you give me a pair I'll make them look good( tip 1: the clothes never Ever make us, we make them if worn properly) 

Last Sunday, I wore a beautiful Ankara Madi Skirt( designed by iLoveAfrica). When I tell you I felt and looked all types of dope... I did! During the Photoshoot I kept telling the photographer " I want my skirt to blow". lol

Come on ladies, a beautiful look will do it to you everytime. So, as we embrace the impending skirts/shorts season, be reminded of a few DO's.... 
1) keep your legs shaved
2) wear skirts/ shorts that fit your body 
3) be confident( U make the outfit)
4) don't be afraid to be bold 
5) Strut your Stuff

I believe if you feel good, you look good! 

And men, when you're wearing your shorts look good too. There's nothing more attractive than a man with nice legs to match his sexiness( not cockiness). Yes, we look too. 
Pull out your dope sneakers, loafers and sandals. A confident man will attract a confident woman( Tip 2: We attract what we are Confidence + Confidence = Confidence)  And when we look good together, nothing can hold us down!! 

 The change in weather also brings forth a change in our attitude. Let's keep it simple and classy, look but don't touch( unless Yall a team), don't be afraid to compliment the opposite sex and a smile goes a long way. 

Here's to the season of skirts and shorts. May it bring you lots of compliments, good outfits and good Spring/Summer memories because I know for a fact jack, I'm going to enjoy myself!! I challenge you to do the same. *Wink* 

Signed, 
I Love Short Skirts 😊

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