... I honestly believe in the statement to each his own.. Whatever your sexual orientation, your religious beliefs, life style ETC, that's your BUSINESS!!!
However, please do not attempt to subject me too your LIFESTYLE!! I respect everyone. I know tons of people and I think I've mastered the statement, people who live in glass houses should NOT throw stones. Now, I'm hoping this post does NOT offend anyone but I gotta get it out of my system.. I DO NOT LIKE WOMEN... I enjoy being hit on by the opposite sex NOT the same sex. I can appreciate being told my hair is nice, my shoes are nice or even that I look nice, because I give those same compliments.
I agree, I am a beautiful woman and I appreciate the compliments but when you go far left and began to tell me you've noticed me for a while, we share a mutual friend and you just had to tell me how gorgeous I AM and how you would like to get to know me, it makes me feel a little SICK to my stomach... Am I over reacting? Some may say, YES and that's okay( I agree I am a tad bit extra)BUT I believe in going with my gut feeling and my gut tells me this was not going to end pretty.
I'm speechless, all types of awkward"NESS" is in the air. I kinda want to take another break from FB after this encounter. Nek got hit on.. That even sounds funny.. Statements like, don't knock it til you try it, just does NOT apply to me in the sexual area because I LIKE MEN~.. ugghhhhhhhhhh
As I have already stated, this was not written to offend anyone but MY blogspot is my vent location from time to time...
I think I need to still go and throw up... Can someone, preferably a MAN come hold my hair while I throw up???
Lol I think u r being extra Nek. The girl obviously dnt know u, so she was willing to shoot her shot. I van understand how that would offend you, but u could have told you're not interested, no thank u, u like men, u dnt get dwn like that or something of the sort. Or maybe even u were being punked/ pranked...where r the cameras??? Lol
ReplyDeleteYour ignorant to thee LGBT community, it's ok we tend to fear what we don't know. No offense but you moved to a "gay" state so someone approaching you is not far fetched perhaps more research next time on where we choose to reside... Everyone is entitled to their opinion but respect should always be giving.. Don't frown upon or better yet "eeew" my lifestyle. Im not offended but more disappointed.. I too may "eew" to your lifestyle but out of respect I will not.. Next time state your points/feelings to the one that approach and be conscientious towards how we address certain issues..
ReplyDeleteNO SIN IS ANY GREATER THEN THEE NEXT!!!
ANON, Thank-you for your response...
ReplyDeletePatricia, I'm not ignorant to the LGBT Community. I have nothing but RESPECT being that I worked in a Liberal/Gay Community when I resided in Boston( Jamaica Plain Ma)for over 5 years.. I clearly stated this was not written to offend anyone, it was just my way of venting on how I felt. This was not directed towards anyone, not even the person who sent me the message.
I used my blogspot just to express how I feel. And you're right, alot of us do fear what we do not I understand. Thank-you for your opinion!! I hope that you do NOT judge me based off this, its just how I felt.
There was nothing harshly written, it was just a mere expression of my thoughts...
I honestly don't think she's being ignorant to the LGBT community, she's just openly stating that she's not gay and would prefer not be hit on. There's nothing wrong or cruel about that. In Neka's way of being extra, as she pointed out she can be from time to time, she explained that a specific encounter left her feeling very akward. Her blog...her opinions...her way.
ReplyDeleteI get where you are coming from. It irritates me when ANY person can't pick up the hint that I'm SERIOUSLY not interested or flattered by their comments. Even when dudes come at me sideways with lames come-ons it is irritating. I'll accept a compliment but when I say thanks and keep walking, avoid eye contact etc. get the hint and keep it moving. Male or Female.
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