To Trust or Not to Trust....

Trust:::

You either have it or you don't.. I mean, if you can't trust a person what's the sense in wasting your time around them or with them? As I'm growing and maturing, I find that I'm no longer in the business of wasting MY time because it's valuable. I'm now 36, and I've wasted quite a few years that I'll never ever get back. 

So, instead of beating myself up over what I cannot change, I'm taking charge of what I can. The hardest part for me in dealing with trust, has been to trust myself. Not that my self esteem was low; I just found myself always questioning my decisions and choices. 

My biggest challenges in TRUST ( since being in Georgia) have been with my career and people. Back home, I was confident in my classroom( taught for most of my 20's) and I was secure in my position as Youth Coordinator/Worker for the City of Boston. I had people who I knew had my back without a question and that gave me a sense of security. 

(When I stepped out on FAITH( you know believing in something without seeing it) and started KISS, that was the absolute scariest point of my life. 4 years later, my business is growing, thriving and expanding).

When I relocated to GA, I was in this thing alone. Just me and Mooda Pie. I had family here who helped but it just wasn't the same. I learned, I survived and built new relationships of trust on my own. 

Far as relationships and trust, I'm learning boys will act as boys and Men, when you're dealing with a Man you'll know. He'll match your drive with his own and he'll support your process. Everything else will come automatically... Trust Me! 

Ladies, don't be foolish. Be smart enough to know that when it doesn't feel right it's not right and wise enough to trust your instincts. They won't lie. I'm learning, actions are a person's truest self. I'm not running around trusting everybody BUT I am paying attention with eyes wide open. 

Today lovies, if your relationships are not built on trust then you're wasting your time. Be confident in who you allow into your circle, your home, your life, your family's life and more importantly your Heart and your Bed. 

Signed, 

I trust you 2.