Friday, July 13, 2012

Sometimes you GOTTA laugh to keep from crying...



 There's definitely an understanding between twins that the world will never understand. I've had the opportunity to watch my twin Aunt&Uncle growing up. They are hilarious together. I have bonus girls who are twins as well. They are still young, so I'm sure their interactions will enhance as they grow. However, watching my two friend girls from Detroit who are twins is quite Hay-La-Rious~~~

These two are like two peas in a pod. They are not identical BUT they are so much alike that they are not alike( you would have to see them in action to get it) all.

We all go thru trying times in our lives. How we determine to face them depends on our strength and stability. Personally, I'm a worry wart. I mean, I worry about the simple things too (don't judge me). Prime example, when my daughter forgets her lunch at home and I can't get it to her, I worry if she'll attempt the school lunch or will she just choose to starve and be hungry until she arrives home after school( see, I said don't judge LOL). Or, when I use my debit card in hopes that the charge won't hit until the check clears( and that's real because I'm sure ya'll do it too, again No Judging).

This last month has been trying for a majority of us I'm sure. We've either learned to adjust or we whole heartedly believe, God will never put more on us than we can bare. We grin and bare it while inside we fight the urge to break down.

Back to the twin friend girls. Their interaction yesterday went from, ready to fight each other to loving and watching netflix together in a matter of 10minutes literally. I stood from a distance( wasn't sure if the blows were going to come, lol) and watched this amazing exchange of LOVE between the 2 of them. Yes, it was heated. BUT their LOVE made them laugh and whatever feelings they felt about what they are going thru erased the need to cry. I'm learning, other that looking a mess, drooling and boo hooing, what does crying really do? You feel good after you do it but the issue still remains and you're still faced with whatever is placed before you. Yesterday's experience reminded me that, we have to keep rolling with the punches. Face life head on. Yes we ALL mess up, there'll be good days and bad and sometimes we may want it all to just go away.

However, we know it won't just go away. Face whatever it is head on and give it your best shot!!

Yes, lemons are sour BUT if you grab some water or even some sugar, hmmmmm it becomes tolerable and the taste is soothing!! Ahhhh, and refreshing!! I'll drink to that~

Make it a great Day~

2 comments:

  1. I wrote on something very similar to this on my Thankful Thursday post this week! Thanks for sharing! Laughter can definitely be one of the best medicines. As the big sister of twins, I learned very early to let them do what they do because they can go through a range of emotions in a matter of minutes...LOL

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  2. This is too funny but so true i have tears from laughing, that is us all day, we will never fight each other but we do get that man and then we're back to normal.. its amazing how our relationship is because some sisters will fight each other but that's not us.

    so on point neka thanks i need that laugh

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