It's not what YOU get but what U give...

When you walk into my house, the first thing you see is our Christmas tree. It's huge and we actually have a real one this year. One of my clients, donated it to us( what a blessing because I was surely about to pull that fake one out the closet).. The entire corner is full of gifts. This year, I didn't have to spend alot of money because my daughter's Nana( she's close to 80), her grandma and great aunt sent me cash to do ALL of her shopping. I was beyond thankful. Around black friday, I always budget out what I'm going to spend. now that I have 2 children, I'm a tad bit more mindful.I must admit, I had no idea or clue as to what to get my son but I think I did alright.. lol

As Christmas approaches, my children are receiving more gifts in the mail( from family members far and near). Reality hit when my daughter said, 'Mommy I would get you a gift but I would have to ask you for some money and I know you already spent enough money"..
From the mouths of babes I tell ya.

So, lastnite my business KISS was able to sponsor a family alongside my sister girl( Author Lina Banks, "How to Save a Life") in collaboration with Five Eights. While in Walmart picking up various things that were on the list, some players from the Atl Hawks were inside as well with over 50+ kids they too had sponsored. As Lina and I walked through out Walmart, it was evident the spirit of Giving Back was in the air. I said to her, " Lina this is what it's all about". A feeling of calm rested over me soul. It took my mind back to when my brothers and I were younger and people would give us extra things just because my mother was a single parent.

I must openly admit, I really wasn't in the mode to buy this year. With having started a business, it's not as easy as people think it is. It doesn't mean I always have money because I don't. But, I have lots of time and energy to give to parents on the go that just may need a little break.

I'm slowly grasping the meaning of Christmas on my terms. Yes, I will buy a few gifts because its just what you do.. BUT, my efforts will now be to give a little extra to someone else. Yes, I would love to open a gift or two but if I can't I'm okay with it. I want the children to be happy. I picture little sweet baby Jesus laying in a manger. All of the inns were full and the only place able to provide space was the animal stable.
I'm already dreading my 2 possibly having to share a room for a little while so just imagine your newborn being in a stabl with ANIMALS??!!
I can just imagine how Mary was feeling. If she's anything like women today, she was a bit vexed that she had to give birth in a stable. But, deep down she was appreciative. I mean, I would've been feeling some kind of way but once those labor pains kick in, all you really want to do is get that baby OUT!!!! LOL I definitely would've opened my doors, heart and home to sweet little baby Jesus.

My home is a safe haven for anyone in need. I don't have much but what God has BLESSED me with I'm willing to share with someone else. It's a great feeling to be in a place to make others smile and to ME, thats what its ALL about.

So, I've already given myself the peep talk, " Nek, it's not about you but your babies and the wonderful KISS babies you serve".

Make it a gReat Christmas everyone. Look beyond the gifts and find a meaning worth sharing!!!