Most of you know I'm a Mother. I have 2 little ones. A diva style 7 year old daughter and a 6month old little boy who's beyond active!! I love it.. What sucks the most is when they both use the bathroom. My daughter has her own bathroom that's shared with the guest and my son, well you get it,,His bathroom travels with him. But once its on him, he screams and moves like a mad babyboy til I change him.
I'm quick to yell to my daughter, " Close your bathroom door", and with my son I change him as soon as I smell it. I was once told, my sense of smell is amazing..
I said all that to say, Can u smell a bad situation from a mile away? and what do you do?
Life is teaching me, when it smells bad throw it out. Same with anything that's toxic.. When it smells it smells: PEE U!! The more we keep stinky stuff around, the more it lingers and gets into the atmosphere. And there's nothing worse that the smell of dirty friends, dirty relatives, dirty lies and untruths.
And sometimes, we add to the stinky smell by not ridding ourselves of it on contact. We can't say we've changed when we welcome the mess daily.
I remember there was this girl in my 4th grade class we called'Stinky Tanya(name was changed for this piece) I mean this chick smelled. Instead of us helping, we made it worse and crushed her as a person. Kids are honest but yet the boldness we possessed hurt her in the process.
As adults, if we could learn to be bold about the truth and stop pacifying people's feelings, there would be less stinki"NESS" floating around..
If its a toxic friend, throw it out
If its a toxic phone call, hang up
If you walk in on a toxic conversation, leave!
Let's stop adding more stink to the Stink..( that's funny)
Pee u, that STINKS and I refuse to smell it!
How ironic, my son just pooped.. Shoot! Here I come son!
LOL! Such a metaphorical piece yet honestly full of truth in retrospect. It is so true that although we smell stinkiness, we sometimes, if not all the time, add to the stikiness by not removing ourselves from the situation. Thank you for bringing light to the stinkiness we smell or may not smell because we have become so accustomed to that foul odor, in our lives. With that I am saying, Pee U and farewell to all of the stinkiness that is still existent in my life. Thank you for your bold honesty! Thank goodness you're changing my baby, don't want him sitting in no stinkiness!!!! LOL!
ReplyDeletethat is so true Neka, we all keep stinky things about thinking they will go away on their own. But, we are responsible for getting rid of our own smelly situations... Love you Ma
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