" Dang, he's not the cutest person, but girl he makes me look good"... I walked away puzzled...
Dear God, thnx for making me the way I Am!
Thank-you for making me strong!
You've given me confidence and no matter how good or bad I look in other's eyes, to ME I feel like a thousandaire! Amen
We cannot change the next person. No matter how we think we can dress them up, add to their vocabulary or even help them get a better job, it will NOT make us look better.
We have to find the love within ourselves in order to see the other person for who they are.. Love ourselves for our flaws and become so buried and consumed with making ourself better that, whom ever we decide to bring into our circle will exemplify a part of us and our confidence!
There will be people placed within our reach to YES help them reach higher but our presence alone cannot and will NOT make the difference.. As time progress, we all need to come to the realization that there is a GOD! And what we seek in others only come thru God!
I'm only as loving and beautiful as the people who make up my circle... I know how to Love because someone LOVED me! My hero loved me and cared so much that even in my weakest moment he never let me fall! We encounter signs every day, but if our eyes are not open and our hearts are not in the place to receive we will miss it everytime!!
Be Encouraged, Be Inspired
Cheneka T. Is.......
- Sincerely, ChenekaT
- Atlanta, Georgia, United States
- I'm Cheneka, simply put!! I'm a Mother, Author, Business Owner and Co-Founder of Women Who Network, LLC. I recently became a published Author: Strategically Being Mom. Book number 2 is currently in the works. A series on things I've learned while being a Single Mom. I was born to help heal others through my words and actions. My greatest Joys are my children and to help others. You can find me on Instagram; womenbldgnetwrk( business) neka_th( personal).
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Sunday, May 2, 2010
The Realness of Reality
" Everyday, Reality sets in.. This is MY( your) life. In order to be Happy we have to do what brings US happiness.. Holding on to events of yesteryear that are full of misunderstandings, hurt and pain only re-opens old wounds..
Live and walk in today.. Reality is Real life and Real life is no joke.. Take what doesn't matter as a grain of salt and you will go far! We hear phrases like" Real recognizes Real", but have you ever stopped to think about what is Real?
Real"ness" we cannot fully recognize it in others if it does not exist within ourselves.. We have to first be real with ourselves in our own world to even know what to look for in others! Realness starts when you know how to be honest with yourself, when you do that it will allow you to be honest with others!
Real"ness" with one's self, will allow you to upfront and NOT front... Who likes to be around a person who is not secure and confident in who they are?
Real"ness" with one's self, will allow you to see your own flaws and allow you to perfect the person you aspire to be..
Real"ness" with one's self, will allow you to be upfront in all you do.. It will allow you to LOVE and give unto others as you'd like them to do unto you..
Real"ness" with one's self will allow you to remember your true blue friends when your status in life change? Wouldn't it just be ugly to forget the ones who would split 5 dollars with you, now that you have 100 dollars?
Real"ness" with one's self will allow you to LOVE through the hurt and the pain... Keep your heart open and it will surely find it's way to you and it will be REAL...
Real"ness" with one's self, will allow you to keep quiet when something is NOT your business... Once we're over the age of 25, who really wants to be involved in he said she said?
Real"ness" with one's self, will allow you to keep it real with others at all cost..Can't expect something YOU'RE giving!
Today, let Real flow from you and when you do just that Real will meet you in return!!
The Realness of Reality is: Keep it Real with you and others will follow suit!!
No matter what Love on God and keep Him number 1 and the Love he pours into your heart will spill over into the ones who make up your circle!
Life's lessons are Real,
Life's lessons are true,
Life's lessons are tools that will get us through!
Be Encouraged,
Be Inspired!
Live and walk in today.. Reality is Real life and Real life is no joke.. Take what doesn't matter as a grain of salt and you will go far! We hear phrases like" Real recognizes Real", but have you ever stopped to think about what is Real?
Real"ness" we cannot fully recognize it in others if it does not exist within ourselves.. We have to first be real with ourselves in our own world to even know what to look for in others! Realness starts when you know how to be honest with yourself, when you do that it will allow you to be honest with others!
Real"ness" with one's self, will allow you to upfront and NOT front... Who likes to be around a person who is not secure and confident in who they are?
Real"ness" with one's self, will allow you to see your own flaws and allow you to perfect the person you aspire to be..
Real"ness" with one's self, will allow you to be upfront in all you do.. It will allow you to LOVE and give unto others as you'd like them to do unto you..
Real"ness" with one's self will allow you to remember your true blue friends when your status in life change? Wouldn't it just be ugly to forget the ones who would split 5 dollars with you, now that you have 100 dollars?
Real"ness" with one's self will allow you to LOVE through the hurt and the pain... Keep your heart open and it will surely find it's way to you and it will be REAL...
Real"ness" with one's self, will allow you to keep quiet when something is NOT your business... Once we're over the age of 25, who really wants to be involved in he said she said?
Real"ness" with one's self, will allow you to keep it real with others at all cost..Can't expect something YOU'RE giving!
Today, let Real flow from you and when you do just that Real will meet you in return!!
The Realness of Reality is: Keep it Real with you and others will follow suit!!
No matter what Love on God and keep Him number 1 and the Love he pours into your heart will spill over into the ones who make up your circle!
Life's lessons are Real,
Life's lessons are true,
Life's lessons are tools that will get us through!
Be Encouraged,
Be Inspired!
Saturday, May 1, 2010
...My Business is Mines Alone..Mind Yours!
"It's HARD to tell others to mind their own when you are Not minding yours! Today, my gift is to Mind my Business....When I can pass on the Piece for that then I have done my job for the Day!!!!"
There is Nothing hard about sitting down talking with your true girlfriends, BUT the issue is when we cannot keep the information shared between ourselves. I'm not one to have alot of female friends BUT for the few I have I do cherish them. I trust that what I share with them stays between us. BUT, when that information is EXPOSED, you don't know what to do..You feel hurt and you began to question Is your Business really yours?
The issue isn't the person, its about us realizing that we need to keep what we feel as personal to ourself!! We have to decide that if its important we keep it within.. Everyone is NOT our friend and everyone does not care. We will meet people who will go to bat for us while we will meet others who will act concerned but they aren't.
As, we grow older we learn that....
Our Relationship with God "Personal"
Our Relationship with our Man "Personal"
Our Relationship with our Family "Personal"
What we deem as important we have to learn to keep it as such..
There will be people in our life who will benefit us in So many ways and there will be some who will drain us... We have to learn who and what is important and that will make us Better...
Today,What's important is learning to keep what's important to me...
Today, I'm understanding what's important and what's not...
Today, I'm learning that I have to keep What's important to me as such...
Today, I'm learning that God is the only one that can and will judge me...
Today, I'm understanding My Business is Mines!
My dReams will not be accepted by everyone, Everyone will not understand my walk nor my talk.. Everyone will Not understand my path..
I'm NOT asking anyone to understand it..I
I'm just asking... Let My business be mines and Yours be Yours!!
Be Inspired, Be Encouraged!!
There is Nothing hard about sitting down talking with your true girlfriends, BUT the issue is when we cannot keep the information shared between ourselves. I'm not one to have alot of female friends BUT for the few I have I do cherish them. I trust that what I share with them stays between us. BUT, when that information is EXPOSED, you don't know what to do..You feel hurt and you began to question Is your Business really yours?
The issue isn't the person, its about us realizing that we need to keep what we feel as personal to ourself!! We have to decide that if its important we keep it within.. Everyone is NOT our friend and everyone does not care. We will meet people who will go to bat for us while we will meet others who will act concerned but they aren't.
As, we grow older we learn that....
Our Relationship with God "Personal"
Our Relationship with our Man "Personal"
Our Relationship with our Family "Personal"
What we deem as important we have to learn to keep it as such..
There will be people in our life who will benefit us in So many ways and there will be some who will drain us... We have to learn who and what is important and that will make us Better...
Today,What's important is learning to keep what's important to me...
Today, I'm understanding what's important and what's not...
Today, I'm learning that I have to keep What's important to me as such...
Today, I'm learning that God is the only one that can and will judge me...
Today, I'm understanding My Business is Mines!
My dReams will not be accepted by everyone, Everyone will not understand my walk nor my talk.. Everyone will Not understand my path..
I'm NOT asking anyone to understand it..I
I'm just asking... Let My business be mines and Yours be Yours!!
Be Inspired, Be Encouraged!!
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